course, again, to appreciate is not the same love, because we can appreciate a good gay, but that does not mean that we love him (her). Appreciate that at least some parts of the other means to attract their own, so he was willing to close to him (her), looked forward to with him (live). Appreciation of the factors is very large, you can appreciate each other's appearance; can appreciate his knowledge, talent, you can also enjoy the beauty of her tenderness; can enjoy his firm, self-confidence, you can also appreciate her intelligent, virtuous; can appreciate his optimism , cheerful, you can also appreciate her quiet, subtle.
Third, attach importance to:
However, a lot of love, just stop at the first layer, that love each other, appreciate each other, want to have is to love each other, and in fact far from it.
Communication and culture issues are not only refers to the general chat, exchange information, but rather ideas, concepts, feelings, attitudes, etc. in-depth exchanges. Nor to understand not only refers to the general mutual understanding, but one of action, thought, emotion, values, and so in-depth understanding of each other and thus have more tolerance and love and compassion to understand each other.
Real in-depth from a deep trust in each other, I believe you have to pay between the sincere, I believe that the true feelings between you, I believe that each is willing to pay each other the whole carefully. Complete trust can lead people to fully experience the happiness and quiet.
Pamper themselves with the other side is connected to the ability, and only connected on such an order to truly let themselves spontaneously to the attention to the other's pain and joy, truly the other side as one of the most precious life to care about care.
If we say that cultural social issues to achieve the eighth level of appreciation and cherish the time between two or more, or there is a rift, between the two can not be 100 percent to determine the future of words. So, to reach the ninth level of love, and you will really love their own future on their own life is full of grasping and self-confidence. To the ninth level of love, we truly believe is not separated from love does not degenerate.
In fact, in love relationships, the two men exchange of feelings and ideas is the most essential, most able to reflect the charm, the lack of communication, lack of understanding is undoubtedly a very strange, very superficial. The smooth communication and understanding and deepening of the spirit of mutual integration of both sides and nestle the premise, is wholeheartedly in love guarantee.
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appreciation of cultural issues nursing is the foundation, if a person is feasible even to appreciate, then with his (her) together is not out of love, but out of the needs of a variety of purposes. Appreciate more with less direct impact on the depth, to appreciate more, you may be deeper.
Of course, many times, even the other great respect, it does not mean that love each other, because only respect is not enough.
Every life is a chance to come into the world, and then in turn inevitably leave. Encounter of life and love and life, it is always worth a wholehearted appreciation and treasure to fate.
Women care about each other, men love each other, this is already a concrete expression of love, and if the above is just to stay in the nine levels of perception, then at this level had already produced
Second, to respect:
5, pamper:
Attention to the other side, which means the other side on your mind a very important position on the current cultural issues, from time to time to be concerned with and understand each other's mentality, needs, so as to allow the other side feel it has been practical. Level of importance attached often depend on the depth of the deeper, more attention to the full. Attention to each other, can we truly want to go to care and love each other. If you simply do not focus on each other's mentality, needs, and so do not mind, it is impossible would be hard to express love to each other.
6, communication, understanding:
7, and trust:
the depth of cultural issues nursing also reflected in the treatment of his wife, in this 9 level, which did its own step, depth to what extent. This is speaking is not easy to measure with concrete things, but everyone should know at each level, whether it be the best, or that there is from the best long distance.
Respect relates to the basic elements of love, if a person is not each other's respect, he (she) is very difficult to feel. Conversely, if you think you love each other, but they do not respect each other, which is only possessive, not you call it love.
The deepening of mutual communication and understanding, make each other's face in each other to maintain a completely transparent heart, will feel smooth communication between the two barrier-free life, can there be for each other's whole-hearted support and assistance, so as to ensure that in-depth and long-lasting.
Affection is a strong concern for each other, want to bring happiness to each other's feelings to each other's happiness as our own happiness to each other's pain as their own personal pain. This is the other side a more in-depth attention and care. Only in-depth love, it could trigger a strong feeling of pity. The other party in any pain and discomfort, and make themselves very distressed, and will be a strong pulling their own frame of mind, involuntarily to go for each other share the pain, relieve the discomfort.
Love represents a thing to the other side, while the likes represents the other side can give you the benefits of, the things that attracted you. You may like a certain kind of something or someone, but you do not have to pay whom feelings. But if you love this person, but you can not not like him.
If both love and love what is the difference, then it can be said, love is more than the love of others in-depth attention, recognition. Love a person must also include the existence of his people as a whole, a great importance to pay attention to his thoughts, words and deeds, and preferences. But like a man, referring to the other side to attract to your place, you want to have him, but does not mean you should pay attention to him.
Have to say is that love is not a want, as long as willing to do the desire can do, not want to be able to love and deep, deep love. It is actually a wide range of full capacity, there is not enough knowledge and ability, it is impossible to reach deep. If you are a selfish person, how do you know how to love better to take care of each other; if you do not understand anything, you have to go with the other side and how the spirit of an in-depth communication and exchange? If you are a hot temper, anger up, when and how you can do for each other's respect?
8, appreciation and value:
On the basis of mutual understanding, further life to the cause, to produce in-depth resonance loving, when two people were counted as real travel life together, two people began to not tell each other and actually start to melt as the one.
Mind interlinked, exchange not affect the resonance, is the highest level of love, this level of love makes you totally intoxicated, you will feel a thorough physical and mental pleasure, for love of life will no longer have a shred of regret at his departure.
Enjoy the beginning of love is the love of the first layer, no love, first came to appreciate each other's right.
Because this time, you get the other side the greatest degree of acceptance and appreciation, respect and admiration, gratitude and love, while at the same time, you also put their own the greatest degree of acceptance and appreciation, respect and admiration, gratitude and love were all to the other, two of lives will enter a completely harmonious, deep resonance of the realm, this is truly seamless feel.
Get attention from others is to live in this world, one of the most essential spiritual needs. We have a friend relationship, from a love relationship, from the kinship relations pursued, is in all its manifestations, but is one of the essential connotation of attention.
4, care, love:
Therefore, in general, love is like the meaning of containing, and like more than one thing: attention. Of course, love is not just attention, attention to an individual, it is not tantamount to love him.
"Look each other, see each other looking at you, like each other, know each other is like you." This is a complete truth to the mutual trust, mutual understand their hearts in each other's weight, it is convinced that their own people who love each other deeply, but also convinced that his right to pay the other party will get the same really sincere in return.
Attaches importance to and different from that respect, it refers to how the other party cares about whether it is willing to understand each other's feelings, thoughts, needs. Everyone pursuit of a greater attention and the feeling of being concerned about, because it will feel there is value.
Only achieve this fifth level of love, can be called true love, because only achieve this level will start to each other on the important position than themselves, to the other party is willing to sacrifice themselves willingly.
Between each level of the depth of a sequence of not necessarily so obvious, is not entirely meet the shallow layer in order to enter the deeper layer. Important is to look at themselves or each other's state of mind has reached a level which has been done in which a layer of very full. Only truly and fully be able to say that love has reached this level. For many people, the occasional hint of concern, worried moment of pity, and even a momentary feeling and value, are very easy to do, but that does not explain state of mind has reached that elevation.
Love can be achieved to maintain the level of use of life also should go to the extreme right?
When you are paying attention to or serious attention to each other, perhaps began to grow in love. Because this time you will find that the other side began to become important to you, and he (she) in your mind already occupied an important position.
Understanding is the eighth level? To the understanding of this stage of love, we will have a deep respect for each other and recognition, we are each other's words and deeds will be given full recognition, and we understand each other's lives, understand each other's cause, and give great support. Between the two men began to have in-depth understanding.
Respect is to get along with people of a basic attitude, but also reflect the ability of a person's basic measure, the more genuine respect from the other side within the hearts of people, the more have true love. On the contrary, the lack of basic respect for people who can not have the love of the heart.
We may in society, at work among them in learning to others or the society is not enough attention and recognition, but we should be in the family, in friends are fully respected and adequate attention.
Gratitude and cherish the eighth floor realm of love. Chang Huai appreciation and treasure of the heart, know how to appreciate each other, grateful for love and gratitude to God bestowed upon your happiness, you will know how to appreciate life and grateful for the community, grateful to the world, you will have a more broad, broader love, you only would be willing to make this world a better place and threw himself to pay. In this way, and can the meaning of the greatest achievements in life.
First, enjoy:
Cherish the feelings between the two means not easily give up and transgression, in order to maintain this feeling at all costs, and even their own lives. Value close to the mentality of a pious religious mentality, with the value of life to maintain let you cherish a deep sense of gratitude, grateful to God he gave you the happiness. In this way, you will have more love, more understanding and tolerance. Deep gratitude to the other side when you can bring your good time, you can be generous to each other not so good side of inclusiveness. After all, people no one is perfect, and people always have a problem, there are always weaknesses of human nature, the two get along very long period there will be some very good things come to an occasional showing, if you do not know how to appreciate and treasure, you will not tolerate each other, tolerance the other side, then you will gradually be eroded away.
Refers to the other side to respect the personality and the will to fully respect the other side as an independent entity with its own equality, not to impose their will on the other side. In fact, there are many love is a possession-style, but their own favorite things (including human and material) for themselves, to become their own appendage, only think of how to use each other to meet their own needs, subject to their own the will, but do not take into account each other's needs and wishes. Such a possessory simply can not be called love. Without respect, there is no basis for the exchange of equality, there will be no communication and mutual understanding, let alone love.
Pain is love, but unfortunately is the pity.
The concern and love is not just a desire, it is a capacity, an ability to express, which reflects the quality of a person. Male to female is a kind of similar to the father's favorite daughter-like, is willing to sincerely care and love women; while women were more men up care from life.
We believe that the love progressive approach should include the following nine levels:
The concern and care for each other is a specific performance, it is reflected in language and action are concerned, the specific way of showing it to, and sometimes even seem trivial, but it is necessary. Love is a kind of pay, is a given, paid, and must be given through a specific language or actions can be reflected in our concern and care, while among frequent concern and love is what reveals the most important manifestations of love. Between the two men have lost if the concern and care for each other's desire, then such love is likely to have been obliterated in the daily chores into a.
9th layer: resonance:
As the mother of the children is based on the kind of a natural correlation between the flesh and blood, the child's emotions will not help in any way involved with the mother, while the affection is precisely such an involuntary's concerns and attention.
If the person can traction your concern and love, then, between you, if not true love, or at least quite a good impression of the.
Among the two men get along, especially after getting married in the complicated family lives, not only should Changhuai appreciation and value each other's hearts, but also should be good at using words with actions often touched each other, so that the other side kept gratitude to treasure mentality, so that love can never fail a fresh, forever happy.
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